8/11/09

Life and Death!

Sorry i haven't blogged for awhile on sunday night at 10:20pm My Uncle passed away. He had extensive brain damage and wasn't breathing by himself so his wife decided to take him off the ventilator it must of been a hard decision and my thoughts and love are with her and my cousin.

Bailey loved his lesson in the hydro pool I mean loved it the OT said he was actually less sensitive in the water then what he was out of it so that was great he was trying to swim all the time and proceeded to swallow large amounts of water as a result :P. He wasn't too keen when they put the bubbles in though he didnt want a bar of them and he didnt want his head to go into the water either but i knew he would do that its a matter of easing him into it. He has began not to sleep again he is awake most of the night and i dont know why! But I've got him here and thats all that matters my uncles death has shown just how much you should cherish each and every moment with the people that you love because you never know when that last moment will be. I have written a poem for him to read oput at his funeral (or try anyway).

5 minutes
You were such a happy man,
who did all the right things in life,
i know that you will always be watching,
over your beautiful daughter and wife.
Sometimes life just isn't fair,
Just how much no one can ever guess,
But to everyone you were great,
God only takes the best.
If only i had 5 minutes,
The night you passed away,
I'd give you one last kiss,
and tell you it will be ok.
But you were gone so quickly,
one last breath you'd take,
before you even knew it,
you were standing at heavens gate.
Now God has called upon you,
it's time to get your wings,
to leave this life behind you,
and enjoy all heavens beautiful things.
Everyone who has read it has cried so sorry if i made a tear well up in your eyes. I will leave with a comment made by Ryan that may make you laugh instead. this morning he was watching discovery home and health and there was a programme on it about parenting for dummies that was on and it said about comforting your child when they cry or something like that. Ryan pipes up and says but mummy you are always cuddleing Bailey and he never stops crying :P Out of the mouths of babes :)

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